Ralph and Helen

Ralph and Helen Goldenberg

My name is Ralph Goldenberg and I am the Vicar of Christ Church, 
Bayston Hill, Shrewsbury.
  

I was born in Khartoum, into an Orthodox Jewish Family (my maternal grand-father was Chief Rabbi of the Sudan).  I grew up multi-lingual (Arabic, French etc.) with a normal, Jewish upbringing (eg - bar mitzvah at 13 years of age) and happy in my faith.

I came to England aged 17 to attend a liberal Jewish boarding school and began to move away from my strict Orthodox Jewish tradition.  After taking my A’ Levels I went on to The City University, London, where I met Helen (then a nominal Christian).  In time, we got married and set up a home in Ferndown.  I developed two successful Ophthalmic Optical practices in Ferndown & Parkstone.

Over the years I became very successful, in worldly terms with enough money to provide a luxurious home, with a tennis court and a swimming pool.  To my professional success was added three wonderful sons. Although, still nominally a Jew, I felt an unsatisfied hunger for a real knowledge of God. In 1980 friends from Round Table who were committed Christians witnessed to me & I yearned to experience the relationship with God which they obviously enjoyed.

I approached the local Vicar of St Mary's Church, Ferndown, full of questions and began to read the books, which he lent me.  When, eventually, I came to read the New Testament for myself, I was amazed by ‘how Jewish it was’.  Written by Jews for Jews, with all the Jewish feasts and traditions and in Jesus the fulfilment of the Jewish Messiah.  This was the start of a time of searching to find out more about the new faith, which had found me.  I was involved with St Mary's Church, Ferndown, where I was ‘born again’.  I became Pathfinder leader, then home group leader followed by becoming Church Warden.  I have much more to share about my personal spiritual journey including difficulties in telling my Jewish parents about my conversion and especially my decision to leave a successful career and train for the Anglican ministry.

Even when I took the tremendous step of selling up everything and moving to Bristol to attend Theological College, I had occasional doubts about being ordained.  Three months before my ordination I went on a mission with the college where after a meeting someone felt compelled to lay hands on me because God had a message for me.  He thought he prayed in tongues, but to my amazement, the man spoke in perfect Sudanese Arabic, confirming God’s call on my life!  As the man in question had no knowledge at all of Arabic, I could no longer doubt that God did, indeed want me to go forward into the ministry.

Since then, Helen and I have ministered together, initially in St Andrews Kinson where we started a church plant, then I was Curate in Charge of St Andrew’s Edgware, then I became Team Vicar of Christ Church, Roxeth, Harrow.

I came to Christ Church, Bayston Hill with a heart full of Passion for Jesus & compassion for others. I pray that what is in my heart will overflow into my ministry in Bayston Hill. We ae excited with all that God is doing among us - "Growing God's Kingdom in Bayston Hill and Beyond".

06/06/2004